Thursday, July 24, 2008

Phoenix

Like a phoenix rising up from the ashes only to be blown out of the sky by an Okie duck hunter was my return to playing indoor soccer goalie after two years of retirement. Things can only get better after the 12-2 thrashing we received tonight. Hopefully, my return to blogging will go a little more smoothly.

There's a lot of ground to cover here so we'll use some pictures to help things along. Over the last 2 months there have been good times...


and bad times...


We've played in the legendary mole hills of Bixby. It's "Don't make a mole hill out of a mountain" around here.


We've inaugurated the tricycle era.


And for Father's Day, I received the first ever painting on canvas by the Shirtless Picasso (note the trademark blue ear). I believe he's calling this one "Something to Do Before 2nd Breakfast."


But mostly, Benjamin has been spending time with his two true loves - books...



...And his girlfriends.


As you'll see, the two seem to go together.



Sara Hill came over to our place and read some books for Ben. He was mildly excited about this.


And now you know the way to Benjamin's heart.


I think that pretty much sums it up. Ben hasn't had any surgeries for the past 6 weeks which has been very nice. His next one is coming up on August 5th, and it's a big one. The surgeon will be taking out Ben's trach and putting in a new one that will allow Ben to attempt to breathe through his nose and mouth. Before he switches out the trach, he'll go in and repair the damage that was done to Ben's airway when they put the first trach in. This means that everything above and below Ben's vocal cords should be pretty close to normal after the procedure, and putting this new trach in will let us see how much work the doctor still has to do to open up the airway between the cords. We'll be staying in the ICU at OU Children's Hospital in OKC on the first night after the surgery, and we're hoping he can go home on the 7th.

It's good to be back with y'all again, and thanks as always for praying for Benjamin.

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Adrienne,
I had to thank you for your message to my son Elijah's website and for your prayers. And to tell you--what a small world! I had actually already visited your blog--Elijah's initial procedure that led to the diagnosis of neuroblastoma was a bronchoscopy by Dr. Digoy! We had been referred by our pediatrician, knew nothing about him, so of course I googled him and saw your website as the 3rd or 4th entry down. I read about Ben's story and saw your beautiful pictures (WHAT a cutie!), realized you were in the Tulsa area but came to Digoy in OKC (at that point I didn't know he was the only pediatric ENT in OK), then saw you were also OC alums and had prayer warriors at Memorial (where we have many friends; we were members at Garnet for many years). It seems hard to believe now, but we were so worried about that bronchoscopy and Elijah having to go under anesthesia with him being so young, and reading Ben's story gave us more confidence in the Dr. we had been sent to. (Since then, of course, we've realized how blessed we were to be sent to Dr. Digoy in the first place. He did a fabulous job and expedited Elijah's diagnosis so well.)
I wanted to write you then, but it was in those few stressful days before his first procedure, and then we were hit by the "ton of bricks" and were 2 weeks in the hospital. And now I hear from you! Please know we will be praying for your precious son. I don't know if you have "people" in the OKC area, but we would love to bring you a meal or do something else for you when you're up for Ben's procedure in a couple of weeks. Please feel welcome to e-mail me at thfowler@juno.com.
God bless,
Heather Fowler

Richard said...

Welcome back to Blog world.
Ben and the ladies, well at least they are educational experiences.
Whit, your family is such an inspiration and example for us all to follow with your faith. I know you have struggles like everyone but you always show a love for God and for life. Thanks for being an example. On August 5th we will all be praying for a great outcome on the surgery.

Zoomi said...

You are back! I was wondering how you are doing these days! Ben looks great and I hope that the doctor will do wonderful job on the next surgery. Keep posting cute pics!! I love them!

Love,
Izumi

C said...

How Cute! His talking is fantastic! We will be praying for his next surgery.

Amanda said...

Thanks for catching us up! The pictures and videos were precious and brought a smile to my face. We will definitely be praying about the surgery.

NandL said...

Oh, I cannot believe how big he is getting! Of course, I can't believe how big DJ is now and his sister, too! Just when you want to savor the time, it flies by TOOOOOO fast when you have kids!!!
Laura H...

Anonymous said...

How Fun....to check in to see how Ben is doing these days and get to see pictures of my only granddaughter!! Does Hope know you have published Sam's "tooting" for all the world to see? How funny!! I love it and can't believe how much Sam has grwon the past month.
Love and prayers for Ben,
Sam's NawNaw

Shane Coffman said...

God bless the surgery tomorrow!